Do You Live to Love or Love to Live?
by Stefania Johnson aka Stefire
When you live to love vs. love to live, your mindset changes, every step you take, every relationship is viewed differently, what you accept and don’t accept for your health and well-being. There are those to live to love and in these situations, you give all of yourself and accept some less than healthy living styles with a partner. No one is perfect but, you must ensure that you are not being disrespected, demeaned, abused mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. When you live to love, you are constantly searching for love in others than love in self. It’s all perspective and what the value is you put on yourself as well as others, do you value them more than yourself? Do you find yourself emptying your cup while filling others regularly, without a way to keep your cup full? You have to ask yourself, are you living to love? It’s ok to search for love and to want love but remember that when you love to live, you have ensured that whomever crosses your path, accepts who you are and will be the right fit for you……that is when you have nurtured yourself to the point you feel good about where you are, who you are and others are drawn to your amazing energy and a connection is found, the Yin to your Yang and vice versa. Love to live is about taking care of you 1st, loving and caring for who you are, and doing all the things that make you a healthier and happier individual so that someone can feel comfortable around you, feel good around you and they bring a healthy environment to you as well. Be the most valuable person in your mind so that others can see your value and cherish it. Make sure as much as you are putting emphasis on trying to love, you are putting more emphasis on loving to live, that is where the real beauty is found, where the deep connection is made, you are worthy, your life is all you have to give so cherish it. Love to Live!