Will Love See You Through?
By now we have all heard the story, some of us in shock, while others expected it. Prince Harry and Princess Meghan have pretty much been banished from their royal virtues just because they chose love & peace over clear lines of discord amongst the “institution” & royal family. Sadly, for some of us, this tune plays out all too often and in their case Colorism surely played a large part in it, worse yet, the reality that racism was prevalent and that skin to a kin mattered.
The question we should ask ourselves is does love conquer all & do we choose love over everything? In their case, it was evident there were serious implications, to just ignore. Harry made a very bold & honorable move to go against what he was used to and to protect his wife and children. It was time to let the Royal family and all the Institution requires go & live life on life’s terms.
Love was enough to take him away from what he grew to know, being trapped in a world he seemed to want to be free from & it took Meghan to open his eyes. We saw this play out very clearly with his own mother, the late Princess Diana, except, he left knowing Meghan was in a toxic environment, with the addition of racism playing a big factor.
Love is what makes the world go ‘round and it’s all in how you care for it and nurture it. Yes, love can be enough if you are fighting for your spouse, for your children and for your own happiness, bringing peace & safety to your home.
Toxicity, no matter where it comes from, should never be aloud in your circle of love & relationships. It grabs a hold of your mind, it plays tricks on you & it destroys you & all you hold dear. Love is an emotion & requires maturity if you are in a relationship and/or marriage. It helps heal, it helps you listen with intent, it helps you sympathize, it helps you get through obstacles a little easier. If you learned anything positive from their situation, it is that love not only shined a light on what you will sacrifice but how you will overcome. It was just enough to get them through. Allow it to let you get through as well.
Your Sistah,Stefania aka: Ste Queen Of Bling