“Me”ology… Mastering the Science and Fine Art of Self-Love: Self-Love Power-Point #29: GOOD SELF-ESTEEM…
is not based on how other people feel about you, but rather on how you feel about yourself! Good self-esteem is not based on whether or not people like you. It is based on how much you like yourself.
Other people’s perceptions of you may be significantly warped by the eXternal conditioning they have received during their lifetime, the beliefs they have been forced to adopt that go against what is natural and healthy for human life and mental health issues that prevent them from thinking on a level that enriches life for both them and others. FYI: It is impossible for people who do not like themselves to like or love others.
There are a lot of reasons… too many to list, that distort how people think and feel about others. Therefore, achieving a empowering understanding that attempting to achieve good self-esteem based on other people’s mindset is a no-win situation that will become a life-long battle you could spend far too much of your precious time and energy fighting. Spiritual warfare isn’t only a real-life anomaly, it is a insidious mental-health condition that has kept human life from evolving to its highest and greatest potential since the inception of human life.
While the metaphysical composition of human life does not and will never give any of us the power to change how others feel about us, every human being on the planet possesses the innate power to infinitely elevate our good feelings about ourselves. If you do not allow other people to set the tone or the bar on how you feel about you, your self-esteem will consistently magnify self-clarity, multiply and fortify your resolve to be the best you possible and maximize your ability to achieve good things for yourself as you evolve into the magnificent being you were created to be.
“ME”OLOGY AFFIRMATION: Every day I will set aside quality quiet time to check in with myself to identify and eliminate any negative feelings I may have about myself.